June 30, 2012

  • High on summertime

    My biggest regret? Knowing that all those hours I spent wasted on him could have been spent with you.

    If a girl doesn’t trust you, you have to understand that girls get it unfairly. They’re always played, they almost never get out of a relationship without a problem, and even if they never were hurt before, they don’t want to go through it.

    The easiest way to not get hurt is to not care, but that’s the hardest thing to do.

    Because of you, “promise” is no longer in my vocabulary.

     

    True friends are always there for you. Fake friends only appear when they need something from you.

    Smile. Why? Because it makes you more attractive; it changes your mood. It relieves stress. And it helps you stay positive.

     

    Talking about others behind their backs is evidence that their life is more important than yours.

    He left. After months, and months of him claiming you were his everything, and the best thing that ever happened to him. I know it sucks, but maybe him leaving was a good thing. Maybe God knew that you would never be able to walk away yourself, no matter how many reasons you had to. Maybe God knew that you deserved better, and you would never get anything better until you could let him go. And if a guy could ever even think of leaving you, that proves right there that he never deserved you anyway.

     

    That’s it, that’s how it ends. No looking back, no holding back. No goodbyes and no smiles. Because, that’s life. You don’t get a chance to ever really tell someone how you feel because you never have the guts until it’s too late. And you don’t realize just how much you love them until you lose them. Not until the last second do you understand how incomplete you are without them, how incomplete you are always going to be.

    She’s a stunner. She’ll take your breath away before you even have a chance to introduce yourself. Her eyes constantly shine with joy, even in the midst of pain or sadness. She’s a fireball that people can barely handle, but I can tell you wouldn’t stand a chance. She has a mind that could tear yours to shreds.

     

    People will judge you by your actions, not your intentions. You may have a heart of gold, but so does a hard boiled egg.

     

    You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind; but you can change yourself. That is something that you have charge of.

     

    Sometimes there are people who come into your life and leave a permanent mark. They paint your soul different colors and change the way you see the world. And when they leave, you realize that somewhere along the way you lost yourself. You don’t even know who you are anymore, because they made you into something completely different. I don’t miss you, I miss myself.

    Just pretend you don’t care. And don’t be surprised when he comes crawling back saying he made a mistake. And if you want to go, go with him again. But make him work for you. Don’t be his doormat. Don’t let him in the first time he rings the bell. Make him come back every day until you trust him enough. If he doesn’t come back after a couple of tries, just let him go. But if he comes back every day, then he’s worth it. Trust me, he’s worth it.

     

    Don’t give up okay? I know you’ve been hurt, I know how it feels. Believe me, I do. But the feeling will pass. The tears will stop falling. Your heart will heal itself. I promise you it will, so hold on. Don’t let go, don’t lose hope because I promise you’ll find someone who will treat you right the way he never did. Someone who will never ever leave you, the way he did. He’ll be worth the wait, so hang in there, you deserve to be happy.

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