November 13, 2012
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Say what you need to say
Because sometimes there is no easy way out. You just have to grin and bear it. Sometimes the only escape route is to go straight through the flames, just brace yourself and bite your lip. Sometimes you have to sever the ties clean off. Because in every relationship there comes a point when the damage is too much and no matter how good it once was, the memories can’t sustain you. You have to save yourself knowing all the while it will hurt like hell. Because you can’t keep giving someone everything if you get nothing in return.
After the funeral, my grandfather hugged me. And I’ll never forget what he said. He told me that he had just lost the love of his life, the most important thing in the world to him, and that it hurt like hell. He said he probably wouldn’t ever be the same. But then he looked me straight in the eyes; he said that his time with her was something he would never trade, that it was the only thing worth living for. He told me to find that. He told me that once I had that, nothing else would be as important. And he said once I found it, to cherish it and never let it go.
I don’t know what’s in store for us, I don’t know how long this will last, and I don’t know if we’re meant to be. But I do know that I love being in your arms, I know that I love being by your side, and I know that I love you.
Some people never get over their first loves. They spend their whole lives trying to recapture the thrill.
There comes a time in every life when the world gets quiet and the only thing left is your own heart.
If we can overcome sadness, we can hope for happiness in the future.
I know life can be so hard, it can beat you down, it can spit in your face, it can do just about anything and yet you can’t do a thing to prevent it. But I guarantee that one day, you will smile again. You will wake up in the morning, and not have to fight the urge to cry anymore. Yes, it can take a while – weeks, months, maybe even years… but you will get there, I promise you that.
The most wasted day is one in which you didn’t laugh.
You know for most of my life I would’ve gone through this alone, but then I met you. And I finally found someone I could depend on like I’ve got this. So I guess I called you coz I wanted to know if that was still there.
You can’t have a better tomorrow if you are thinking about yesterday all the time.
I think your heart grows back bigger, once you get the shit beat out of you. And the universe lets your heart expand that way, because thats the function of all this pain and heartache that you go through and you gotta go through that to come out to a better place.
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